I think the way you and your fiancee started here, with that thread suggesting that Calvindude was stalking you. The one where you pretended to be scared and people jumped in to protect you, and then the next day you came in and said HAHA, we sure tricked you guys! That might have put some people off. I think you're starting from a place with less credibility because of entering the PRT that way. Or maybe I'm totally off base. But when I see the troll comments in your threads (or your BF's) and I see people being less tolerant with you than perhaps they'd be with others, I think that may be something to consider.