You pretty much got three options...
<ol style="list-style-type:decimal;"><li>Find a store that sells the suit you're interested in and go try it on. Even if you're not gonna buy it there, this works. And look for one that's just a smidge tight - they loosen up when they get wet.</li>
<li>Call the suit manufacturer. They sell suits for a living and they want you to be happy so they want it to fit. Give them some measurements and they'll recommend a size. (This method worked for me.)</li>
<li>Ask about their return policy and roll the dice.</li>
</ol>
<ol style="list-style-type:decimal;"><li>Find a store that sells the suit you're interested in and go try it on. Even if you're not gonna buy it there, this works. And look for one that's just a smidge tight - they loosen up when they get wet.</li>
<li>Call the suit manufacturer. They sell suits for a living and they want you to be happy so they want it to fit. Give them some measurements and they'll recommend a size. (This method worked for me.)</li>
<li>Ask about their return policy and roll the dice.</li>
</ol>