We never had dessert right after dinner.<br>
Dessert was after bath time.<br><br>
And, it was usually something "exotic" like an orange or apple. On super special days we might get some 'nilla ice cream with hershey's syrup.<br><br>
We always got dessert if we wanted it, no matter what.<br>
BUT, we could only have 2nds at dinner if we cleaned our plates.<br><br>
That way, mom made sure we had a relatively balanced dinner.<br>
Otherwise, I'd have cheerfully had an entire dinner of mashed potatoes.....the beginning of my carb addiction. lol<br>
So, if Mom wanted me to eat something new, she'd serve it with mashed potatoes....knowing that I'd eat the new thing to get a 2nd serving of 'taters.