By the way, in some places it is more polite to call a man by his first name rather than Mr. So-and-so. And it's also common to call a person a name based on their first son's name: Mother-of-Ezra, Father-of-Ezra. So I'd be known in the neighborhood as Um-Ezra rather than Sharon (or jebba) and Mr jebba would be Abu-Ezra.