Many many years ago, I had a boyfriend like that. He was nice and it was okay, but I wasn't in love with him. We had a good time. I kept feeling dissatisfied and wanted to break up with him, but I didn't because of inertia. First I didn't want to break up with him b/c it was near his birthday, then it was Christmas, etc. That son-of-a-gun ended up breaking up with me at my own birthday party. Gah!