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really better than not being with someone that is just okay..<br><br>
I've been single for a while .. thinking...
 

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Yes.<br>
Someone who is just okay will end up mind fucking you in the long term because you're going to end up craving intimacy that just isn't there because you don't "Get" eachother.
 

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Be nice to have someone that is a good bed buddy, could take in a movie, a game, and some dinner with..<br>
Maybe the okay could get upgraded??
 

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Ohhh! You want a <i>date</i>! Dating is fine.<br>
Don't confuse dating with couplehood <img alt="smile.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/smile.gif"><br><br><i>Danger, Will Robinson! Danger!</i>
 

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Yes, being alone is better than being in a ho-hum relationship, in my opinion. I just ended one of those. He didn't have any time for me. When we would get together we had a great time, and I do like him a lot, but I didn't feel like settling on being one more thing he had to work into his already full schedule. So I let him go. I'd rather be alone then in a going-nowhere relationship. I deserve better.
 

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I'd rather be alone then hanging onto some mindfucking, half-assed "relationship."<br><br>
At least it gives you more time to develop a relationship with God, or the Universe or whatever you want to call it. Or heck, even yourself.
 

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<img alt="banana.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/banana.gif"> See? We get eachother! Let's date!
 

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Thanks, it's the same as what I've always thought.." I deserve better" but now that I am a bit older- it's tough to get a date with someone that is compatible in so many areas.<br>
They smoke<br>
They have no desire to hike, bike, take a walk<br>
they're tied to the TV and it's schedule.<br>
no desire to travel.<br>
haven't picked up a novel since HS.<br><br>
I've tried chipping away at the stuff I want- the last couple of girls that I've dated didn't have all the things I am looking for..
 

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For the love of God man! Stop dating those sedentary smoker TV watcher non reading non travellers!<br>
Make your list. If girls meet the list requirements- they get a date. If things click- welcome to relationship world. Population: 2. <img alt="icon_salut.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/icon_salut.gif">
 

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I don't like the sound of this HH.<br><br><img alt="sad.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/sad.gif"><br><br>
Strength to you.
 

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I confess. She moved in after one month of dating. It was just cause her work had a little bump in their financial department. I offered my place for fwee, and we're madly in love.<br><br>
It was originally planned as a temporary thing, and we're sticking to the plan. She moves out next month and we're both kind of wondering if she should... but she's going!<br><br>
I agree with aphi, but damn girl, you said you weren't a bitch or assertive! <img alt="biggrin.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/biggrin.gif">
 

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Many many years ago, I had a boyfriend like that. He was nice and it was okay, but I wasn't in love with him. We had a good time. I kept feeling dissatisfied and wanted to break up with him, but I didn't because of inertia. First I didn't want to break up with him b/c it was near his birthday, then it was Christmas, etc. That son-of-a-gun ended up breaking up with me at my own birthday party. Gah!
 

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It is never fun if you are the 3rd or 4th priority in someone's life.<br><br><img alt="sad.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/sad.gif">
 

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No...its not worth it.<br><br>
Thats why you date...to find someone who is suited to you. Unless that person comes along it is not worth being in a relationship.
 
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