Isn't Ileneforward friends with her in real life? They were partners in some event not that long ago - Muddy Buddy maybe? I wonder if Ilene would be comfortable relaying the board's concern to Hahaoya, and seeing if hahaoya would be willing to at least speak with one of the moderators about what this is really all about.
I'm just getting annoyed at this point. I have always liked haha but don't like the way she left. And toe jam is just carrying on the kind of I know what happened but I am not going to say anything. If you don't want to share or if it is inappropriate to share don't even post in the first place.<br><br>
Someone approached me with an offer for the "details". I declined, but they informed Sierra.<br><br>
I feel bad for Lisa, but she's made her choices, and I wish her the best.<br><br>
I feel bad for the PRT because it leaves a lot hanging and it causes churn as people suspect stalkers, or once that notion is dropped start finger pointing or hinting that they know something.<br><br>
We saw that in the case of MP ane STM - a lot of assumptions and a lot of churn over something that was more and less than what people were making of it.<br><br>
In this case I would like to just let it blow over, I am sure that there's a ton of PM traffice, but unless it impacts threads and spills into an innuendo war, I'm taking a hands off approach.
She left, she asked to be left alone about it. She didn't want to just disappear. I think people should just respect her wishes and get on with their lives if they aren't one of the people in whom she confided.<br><br>
But they won't and it will go on for 7 or 8 pages before it peters out.
All I will say is that its not an issue of anyone being "unsafe" There are no stalkers here or anyone or anything that we need to be concerned about.<br><br>
The situation did not occur on the site. Rich has asked that we not respond in the forums to any of it since it doesnt involve us.<br><br>
Lets let it drop. Lisa is fine, and the people who know are going to do what they do.<br><br>
Just ignore it. It will go away.