Hot can simply attract you....<br>
Sexy, by definition, makes you want to have sex with.....<br><br>
I hate it when people, when asked what is sexy, cite things they want in a mate.....does the dishes without being asked...is kind to animals, etc.....<br>
Those are great things in a mate, but not sexy....<br><br>
Sexy...I'll stick with "confidence"....
i dunno. hot is not a word i use a lot unless I've burned myself on the stove...so i can't really tell you a difference between the two. sexy is totally a mind thing. you can be nice looking and not sexy. or ok looking and 8 kinds of sexy.
There'll be as many definitions as respondents to this post.<br><br>
Sexy is probably more directly sexually stimulating than "hot," but I think the two can be on a continuum. "Hot" can also refer to what's current or "of the moment."<br><br>
One fun thing about sexiness is that what one finds sexy in another can continue to change and be surprising.