[Horrible Peanut]

Alright so we coverred off exams- How would ou deal with knowing that your friend is cheating on her SO. You're closer with your friend than her SO, but your SO is closer with her SO.<br><br>
You will get flack from your SO if you don't tell.<br>
You may very well lose your friend if you do tell.

 

[Complete Pete]

I'd give my friend a deadline (short - maybe a week) to come clean with his/her spouse and if he/she hadn't by then I'd tattle.

 

[Nettie]

I would only mention it if the other person brought up suspicions or something along those lines, otherwise, nope, not even my business.

 

[sophielarue]

It all depends. Is marriage involved? Who is more important, your friend or your SO?

 

[Horrible Peanut]

<img alt="sad.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/sad.gif"> I'm not telling any of you that I'm cheating on my girlfriend.

 

[clb]

I would definitely not tell in some cases and would absolutely tell in others.<br><br>
I hope this incisive treatment of the subject matter helps you in your future endeavors.

 

[Martin]

I'm French.

 

[Horrible Peanut]

<img alt="wink.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/wink.gif"> So what if the cheatee only speaks english? You wouldn't be able to tell?

 

[Martin]

Don't even try to tell anyone about cheating spouses in France, not enough hours in the day.

 

[Alternative School Grrl]

I was angry with my best friend when she only came clean about my ex coming onto her AFTER we'd gotten married and divorced.

 

[triciaflower]

Unless I actually SAW it with my own eyes. Confronted the cheater. Got confirmation.<br><br>
I'd still tread lightly. It's not my business.<br><br>
I would want to know.<br><br>
But I don't know if I would have it in me to break my friend's heart like that by telling them their spouse is cheating. I would leave the dirty work up to the cheating spouse.

 

[triciaflower]

Oh, if someone's spouse actually CAME ON to me.. I would totally tell.<br><br>
But then, again, I might chicken out and talk myself out of it. I would convince myself that it didn't happen the way I thought it did.. because really.. who would come on to ME???

 

[Nettie]

Absolutely. Ick!<br><br>
Sometimes, it still doesn't matter though. I was at a family gathering at one of my aunt's houses and she had invited a couple that she knew from who knows where. At any rate, the husband made some over sexual overtures to another one of my aunts, but apparently, that's par for the course with this man and his wife still sticks around.

 

[Horrible Peanut]

To clarify<br>
You are friends with the Cheater.<br>
Your SO is friends with the cheatee.<br>
You know for sure your friend is cheating because she comes to you and says "I saw my toy again last weekend... <i>Wow</i> <img alt="smile.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/smile.gif">"

 

[Complete Pete]

I'd try really hard to get my SO to tell since she's closer to the offended party.<br><br>
Again, I'd give my friend a chance to come clean first.

 

[dcoroner77]

Hells yes I'd tell! I will not for a second enable someone to continue stepping out on their spouse.

 

[Nettie]

Did we have a hand in the cheatee and cheater getting together because then I'd likely feel too guilty to say anything.

 

[Horrible Peanut]

To complicate things-<br>
Your friend the cheater sometimes uses you as her alibi when she's seeing her toy... <img alt="wink.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/wink.gif">

 

[dcoroner77]

Then I'd be super pissed if I was an unwilling, and unknowing accomplice.

 

[Horrible Peanut]

<img alt="sad.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/sad.gif"> Why do you hate the inability to keep it zipped?