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Does one stop dating multiple people (ie first and second dates off the internet) and focus on one person. Is there some magical time? Some magical discussion that has to occur? I am so confused...<img alt="confused.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/confused.gif">
 

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Wait, you mean there's a such thing as a 2nd date??? <img alt="confused.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/confused.gif"><br><br><img alt="wink.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/wink.gif">
 

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Yep and a first also. <img alt="wink.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/wink.gif">
 

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umm... once you realize you're not interested in dating anyone else...? or, are you looking for a specific length of time?
 

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I dont know...I guess a good length of time. Plus how does one even broach this subject without seeming pushy.
 

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well, w/mr. poo and i, it was 1-2 weeks.<br>
w/my ex, it was months.<br>
w/numerous assignations, it was forever and a day... ('though the sex was pretty rockin'...).
 

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I don't date more than one at a time.
 

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<img alt="wave.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/wave.gif"> Hello! Here I am!<br><br><br><img alt="icon_scratch.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/icon_scratch.gif"> Hmm- good question. After 4 weeks with one girl- I asked her if we could be exclusive, and she wasn't ready.<br><br>
To be fair on the other side though- with my ex gf (with whom I was with for a year before I left and sort of on with for the next two years while I was away) after the first or second date it was game over- and with my current girlfriend it was game over for all others after the first date pretty much.
 

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Let's see ...<br><br>
I got married in '92. I've known my current girlfriend since ...<br><br>
Maybe I'm not the person to ask.
 

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Depends on what's going on between the two.<br>
After the two people have decided to be exclusive. If it's not said, it's not happened. (Yes, I'm still bitter about being accused of cheating on a guy I didn't know I was supposed to be exclusive with. I'm not a cheater, goshdarnit!)<br>
It can be a very short period, or months. If you want it to be exclusive, you just gotta say it.
 

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I don't think I ever did the more than one at a time thing. It's too confusing and I always felt like I couldn't really get to know someone to see if I wanted or he wanted to continue dating if there were multiple people in the picture. But I'm weird anyway. <img alt="smile.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/smile.gif">
 

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Well I dont really feel comfortable dumping all the guys I am in the process of talking to and havent yet met just because I went out on a couple dates with a guy I am not sure I am into. Now if I was seriously dating one person (which I am not) things would be different...<br><br>
But I also dont want to give anyone the wrong impression and this is the first time in my life that I have ever gone out with more than one guy at a time so I am not practiced at it.
 

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Oh, no no....I totally think if you're doing the online dating thing you almost have to do it that way, because you meet so many different people. Prolly why I haven't really ventured out thataway yet. Just not my comfort zone. But I don't think there's anything wrong with it.
 

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Apparently its not mine either. I am frankly not used to this level of interest. In the past I was lucky if one person would respond to me. I am by no means popular but I seem to have a few of them fooled.
 

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I think it's awesome that you're such a hot commodity!!!! <img alt="banana.gif" src="http://files.kickrunners.com/smilies/banana.gif">
 
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